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5 Ways to Heat Up Your Sex Life When the Temperature Drops

November 16, 2020
Written by Maria Sophia

Bring out those… flannel sheets and PSLs??? Of coursse Winter is the perfect opportunity to cozy up in bed under a blanket with your partner. You’re already spending more time indoors, so why not get really comfy? Your orgasms don’t need to take a backseat just because it’s cold, and the only chills you should worry about are the ones you get in the bedroom. Lucky for you, we’ve made a quick list of how to heat up your sex life hot when the temperature drops!


#1 Warming Sensations When Going Down Under
Sipping some warm tea before going down on your partner adds a nice, heated sensation to the fun. Just be careful not to burn your mouth or their *parts* from the tea. Other warming options are warming lotions, oils, and lubricants. Speak with one of clerks to find any warming, flavored lubricant at your local Lovers Playground location.


#2 Hot and Steamy Shower or Bubble Bath
We couldn’t agree more with the phrase, “Save Water, Shower Together”. Strengthen the connection with your lover with sweet smelling soap and oils. We recommend running a hot bath with lots of bubbles. If you don’t have a tub that fits two, you can still take a nice steamy shower together. Don’t forget to help the other person wash their back. *wink wink*

#3 Make Them Melt with a Massage Candle

Who doesn’t love a warm rub? Purchase a specially made massage candle that won’t harm your skin upon contact, and indulge in a sensual massage with your partner. These candles are specifically made for touching your skin. (Caution: Use caution with an open flame).


#4 Let’s Spoon!

Bring yourself a little closer by being the Big spoon or little spoon. Go ahead and wrap yourselves around one another. Spooning is one of the best cuddling positions when the temperature drops because it allows for little cold air flow and lots of heat to generate between your bodies.

#5 Get All Fuzzy and Warm with Socks

It’s been said that wearing socks during sex can lead to a better orgasm. It doesn’t matter if they’re knee-highs, over-the-knees, fuzzy socks, or ankle socks. Just keep your blood circulating with feet warm and let the magic happen!

We’ve found a solution to the arctic blues by increasing your endorphins. Push the stress of holiday gift-wrapping aside and get wrapped up with your lover. When Winter feels like it’ll never end, keep things entertaining. You may as well get creative with your romantic time. Light a fire, dim the lights, put on some soft music, throw some blankets on the floor, and get carried away.



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Maria Sophia is a newer member to the Lovers Playground team and has an extensive background in writing and communications. Maria is a Chicago native with a passion for travel and exercise, among other hobbies. She has 2 dogs, no tattoos, and no-known food allergies. She uses writing to freely express and encourage  healthier, more fulfilling sex lives in adults.

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